A love letter to all my past loves

Dear past love,

It’s been a while since we last talked and today I thought of you.

I hope life is treating you gently, showering you with kind encounters and loving experiences.

Today, I want to thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for all we lived together.

How much time it lasted or how intense it was, really, doesn’t matter.

What is, indeed, important are the lessons that we learned and how it all contributed to who we are today.

Yes, we had our sour moments.

Pain and tears, inevitably, form part of things that couldn’t be.

Since we are both human beings, with all that it implies, we showed up with our suitcase filled with fears, doubts and insecurities.

It made me understand how vital self-love is and how healthy it is to establish boundaries.

It made evident how necessary it is to have a balance between giving and receiving.

We played to perfection the roles we had chosen to trigger the shadow in one another.

We made patterns evident and gifted each other, above all, with the possibility to do things differently.

Beautiful mirrors flashing what alone is so hard to see.

Our happy times reminded me of the joy of feeling a strong connection with another soul.

It helped me remember how deep human relationships can go, how easy it becomes to bond with someone else.

It made me verify that there is no greater bliss than to love and be loved and that great love is what we all deserve to experience.

No more overthinking.

There is no one to blame.

There are is guilt.

No more bitterness.

No resentment.

There is nothing to forgive or to be forgiven.

No need to think about of what ifs.

No loose ends.

We both were doing the best we could with what we could at that moment.

Everything was perfect just exactly as it was.

What a great fortune to have crossed paths with you.

We came together to learn, to heal.

Even though if, at times, it was hard to see, we had a perfect purpose of coming together and I thank you dearly for walking for a bit the roads of this life with me.

Wherever you may be, I embrace you strongly and send you my best wishes.

May you have a beautiful love to hug you tight at night, may you know that you are never alone, may you always remember that absolutely every experience we have is for our soul’s growth.

I wish the same for me too.

This is me making closure, letting go of what will never be, feeling grateful for the past.

This is me, in the present, assessing the lessons that I’ve learned, understanding that, in reality, we are one and that we are all connected, knowing that there is a perfect time and order for everything.

This is me making space, blessing both our futures, and paving blue skies and clear roads for my great love.

This is me telling me, you and the generous Universe that anything that needed peace is at peace now.

I set you free, my darling, and, by doing so, I set myself free too.

You are forever in my heart with love and gratitude, don’t you dare forget.

Smile when you remember me, please, just as I smile when I remember you.

Great things lay ahead for both of us.

May life always smile at you,

Your past love

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